By Olivia Gunawan, Global Bachelor of Business Administration student, ESSEC Asia-Pacific

Studying abroad is thrilling, but it also comes with unexpected challenges. At ESSEC Asia-Pacific, students from around the world experience culture shock in ways that are both humorous and humbling. Here are a few of mine, and what I learned along the way:

1. The Punctuality Surprise
   Back home, time was flexible. Showing up a few minutes late wasn’t a big deal. However, in Singapore, punctuality is a serious matter. Being late to class or a meeting was seen as disrespectful. It was a wake-up call. I quickly learned to plan ahead and value others’ time – not just my own.
2. Navigating Language Nuances
   English may be the primary language here, but “Singlish” caught me off guard. Words like “lah,” “leh,” and “can or not?” were entirely new for me. At first, I was confused. Then I started picking it up and even using it. Singlish became a fun, unexpected way to connect with locals and better understand Singapore’s multicultural identity.
3. Embracing Food Diversity
   Singapore’s cuisine feels like home, but also very different from what I used to have at the same time. Malay spices resonate with my taste buds, while Chinese desserts and Indian food are all very new to me. At first, I was hesitant to try something new, but trying new dishes became part of the adventure of embracing new cultures. Today, I can say I’ve become a lot braver with my food choices, and that mindset has spilled over into other areas of my life as well.
4. Understanding Social Etiquette
   Back in Indonesia, we often speak in between the lines, choosing our words carefully to maintain harmony within a group of people. In Singapore, especially in professional settings, communication tends to be a bit more direct. At first, I took things quite personally. Over time, I learned that this directness isn’t meant to offend, but rather to promote efficiency. This experience not only taught me to appreciate clear communication but also deepened my understanding and appreciation of a new culture.
5. Adapting to Academic Expectations
   I assumed lectures would be monotonous and physically draining. I thought I would just sit and listen to one-sided talks until the clock indicated it was lunch. But to my surprise, my professors encouraged discussions and friendly debates. I had plenty of opportunities to apply what I learned through group projects, which not only helped me bond with friends but also strengthened my public speaking skills.
6. Reflections on Growth
   These culture shock moments weren’t always easy, but they were absolutely worth it. They pushed me to grow in ways I never expected: to be more adaptable, empathetic, and open-minded.
   For anyone thinking about studying abroad: don’t fear the uncomfortable moments. They might just be the best teachers you’ll ever have.